Scenes from the swing scene at the Hi-Ball Lounge in San Francisco, late 1998 or early 1999. My then girlfriend, now ex-wife Kim shows up three times in dance sequences … she’s wearing the black suit with red top, dancing with the big guy in the blue bowling shirt (whose name I’m blanking) and [...]
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There is a theory in cognitive therapy that people repeat the same patterns because our minds become used to traveling particular neural paths; and thus seek those paths. It’s sort of the mental equivalent of commuting … where you always take the same route to work, even though you know that sometimes traffic is really [...] Had to run in to the office for a couple of hours today; primarily for a meeting with some consultants about our IT department’s support structure … like many companies we outsource our tech support (not for clients, mind you, only for ourselves) to a company in Canada. I guess our contract is going to [...] Points in favor: Lowered inhibitions from alcohol intoxication mean you might actually post how you feel. Points against: Lowered inhibitions from alcohol intoxication mean you might actually post how you feel. Fortunately, I am drunk enough that I don’t have to actually think about it … I’m not sure I could actually put together a [...] … when (or even if) I’ll be able to get my shit together enough to start dating again; to even ask someone a woman who piques my interest out … This article, in its original form, appeared in the final edition of the Bridgestone Owner’s Bunch (BOB) Gazette, in 1994. What is the most frustrating thing that can happen to a cyclist? I think one of them is being forced to walk. One weekend, late in the summer of 1994, I had that experience. Since [...] A number of people I know are going through the divorce and/or break-up process right now … and it’s easy for me to understand what they’re going through, up to a point … their not-soon-enough-to-be-ex-spouses (ex-spices?) are making their lives difficult. As an ex-husband-to-be, I decided that it would just make my life easier if [...] Going through the process that I have been over the past several months, one of the things that I’ve discovered (not that it was much of a surprise), is that I’m rather resistant to change. I hate it. I’ve also realized that I need to start making some changes in my life if I want [...] I’m avoiding a conversation I haven’t wanted to have, because I’m not really ready to talk about it yet … But to be fair to the two of you, I feel like I should let you know. Kim and I did decide to get a divorce, and filed in early February. Since the divorce was [...] Got the following email from K. yesterday: Subject: Proof the universe is sentient It has a sense of irony. 2/13/07. Maybe we should have avoided the 13th? Let’s blame it on my mother not paying the deposit so we had to move it from 10/6 to 10/13. I’m thankful that it wasn’t 2/14/07. That would [...] |
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